Should I leave my wife of 26 years? - skinny legs alcoholism
Ive been married for almost 27 years and have 2 wonderful children. Children who live with us always, even adults. I see them move in one or two years.
During our marriage, I was especially pleased with the relationship. Communication is poor and I always wanted more interaction between us. I've said this countless times over the years: "I'm happy. Our sex life has been missing ever, and admitted that the sex was within the first ten years of our marriage as a form of control. Even though I already before the Union Long ago I never wanted to leave my children. They are now adults.
My wife has developed a drinking problem and admitted recently that goes back almost 10 years. ItIt took some time to understand how it was bad. He hid himself very well. She was always proud of his little office, but now she has a look of alcoholics, thin arms and legs, big chest and back. Not very attractive. The whole family found hidden bottles and other evidence of his alcoholism. You have more time, then I can not remember a lie, that their consumption.
I have warned in the past two years before that, I will, if they can get treated for this too. I've tried to wear it, but it must Rehad she wants.
I think I'm still an object of the family, and when I go. But I do not think that everything will change, and in fact, will only deteriorate further.
In still on the fence, but I wonder whether it should be. I guessand all the leaders, ideas and useful words. Am I on the right track?
Unhappy marriage.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Skinny Legs Alcoholism Should I Leave My Wife Of 26 Years?
3 comments:
I do not answer many of these courses, and if I do, what are the weekends when the stupid questions, not here.
You have a serious question. It deserves a considered response.
When they marry and have children, they give 2 decades of our lives, many parents of children born never asked. You've done it. Their duty as parents is greater. These children are now adults.
Your obligation to remain in a relationship that is only slightly) by the four Biggie, (respect, admiration, passion and confidence well now.
I guess you drive 50th And love, but there are many women like you who stayed for the kids. (And I think that is what to do, no abuse, fraud, additions,etc.)
May have very little of the above four.
Divorce is not a bad thing, darling. As my father always said: "It is good if you can afford."
You tried to get this fixed connection, as you said. And you can not, because she is happy to stay in the stand. They do not seem acceptable. (You can lead a horse to water .....")
File, honey.
Suggest that he is safe now that the kids are grown, there is someone there who has more in common with her than him, and it's probably someone out there has more in common with you, who produced.
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As friends, you use an attorney mediator, who is completely dactive individual ... and a narrow path to follow: If you are pinning their hopes on "Live" and you get one, well, you're both mega bucko .... easy $ 6000 per. Stupid. Be fair. Also. Look under lawyers, divorce mediators. Get a set of divorce papers in a place of office or your court in the province. Take a look at them, so that we can say, and they more or less how things are shared.
People have done that, they parted as friends and agreed that their marriage is over.
to write if you need more.
Of course it would be remiss if you left, I do not know know about alcoholism, but I think it is a disease that must be very unhappy and has no coping skills.
Talk to a priest involved in the church, to preach the Bible, not in their response.
Thats if you give people the chance to take control of your life is not so much his life and now? think about it, depends on you.
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